My resolution to wear more colour this year (also every year since I started picking out my own outfits) is going really well. To that effect, I have now acquired this adorably tiny red bag that can make even the most basic outfit look a million times better. And more importantly, add some much needed colour. I feel like I say that a lot.
Bodysuit and Red bag from Forever21, Jeans from H&M, Sneakers from Tibet Mall, Lipstick is Ruby Woo from MAC
This outfit is special for another reason as well. Over the last year or so I’ve found myself only ever wanting to wear loose and baggy clothes. Though I’ve always loved comfortable clothing and will continue to do so no matter what, I used to be able to confidently wear more fitted outfits as well. That confidence has somehow completely disappeared over the last year as I’ve gotten curvier. To the point that I can’t even try on dresses or tops that aren’t completely baggy and loose fitting in trial rooms any more. Which is ridiculous and was causing me a lot of stress for no good reason. So over the last couple of months I’ve decided to get a grip, stop this nonsense and make some changes. I’ve started working out, am trying to eat healthier meals, and I made my self go shopping and buy some clothes that actually fit. This bodysuit is one of those things.
Body image is no joke. I’m sure everyone has concerns about how they look and would like to change a few things. That’s actually great, and can motivate you to work harder and get fitter. But when it gets to the point that thats all you focus on, then its a problem. Which is what it kinda got for me. I hate the thought of not being able to do something, I am super competitive even with myself 😛 So just the fact that I had gotten to the point that I felt like I absolutely could not wear certain things, helped me snap out of it. If that makes any sense. I’m no where near where I want to be, but that’s not really the point. I want to be comfortable, and be able to relax in whatever I’m wearing. And be able to wear anything I fancy 🙂
Okay I think thats enough real talk for now. Let me know if you have ever gone through something similar? And what did you do to get through it?
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Hey this post speaks volumes, and resonenates with me too as I also feel I hv gained weight after stopping excercise a couple of months back, so now I hv joined the gym again 🙂
Congrats! Now I’ve actually realized working out automatically puts me in a better mood so never stopped hehe 🙂
I always wondered why you loved loose clothes because personally I have always thought that you have a great figure.
Love love how you look in this post. I’ve gained so much weight since the wedding. Really need a change of routine.
Thanks Krupa, you are too sweet 🙂 Really just taking that first step is usually the problem, once you start it’ll just become routine!
Love the red bag ! A pop of colours always illuminates the outfit !
Yes! It was such a good find.
One of my favourite combinations is stripes and red! Love this pairing girl!
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Thanks so much Ashley 🙂
You are in great shape!
Although this post was completely relatable. I feel the same way all the time, which is why I will generally be seen in loose comfy clothes…and being different sizes in different areas does cause a lot of problems while buying things too! 🙁
On another note : How adorable is that red bag?! <3
Thanks so much Swati! It’s really comforting to hear I’m not alone with these problems. I totally agree about the bag, absolutely obsessed with it!
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I love red bags, red lips, red heels and red nails! I do the same sort of thing too – jeans, top and red bag and lipstick or nails. I really want a flat pair of red pumps. I have a lovely red pair of converse!
Red is always easy to wear and makes even the most casual outfits look slightly more fun. Its my lazy day essential!
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